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When You Are Your Prettiest

May 2, 2016 Health & Beauty

When You Are Your

We live during a time where we are constantly surrounded by advertisements for commodities. Magazines remind you that you’re not skinny enough. Malls remind you that you’re not fashionable enough. Instagram reminds you that you need to get the latest contour kit so you can have as many likes as Gigi Hadid. The list goes on and on. Everything is being turned into some type of commodity and it seems it all could be yours for just the low price of $19.99. From reality television to the victoria secret fashion show, if you’re like me, sometimes you find yourself questioning your beauty and worth when it seems as if the entire world around you is trying to make you something different than you are. Am I really beautiful if I don’t have thighs like her? Or my hair isn’t as straight or long as hers? What about if I put on tons of makeup and wear an expensive watch? Do I live up to the pretty standards that I am constantly exposed to?

The answer it no.

Ask yourself this question, “When Am I The Prettiest.” If the first thing that comes to your head is “When I am wearing my new Kylie Lip Kit” or “After I take a trip to the mall” I want you to meditate on the scripture below. If above represents genuine feelings about when you feel your prettiest, that is okay. Know that your feelings are your feelings and they should never be neglected. However, the scripture below may be something you should think about when it comes to your idea of beauty.

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
1 Peter 3:3-4
To me, I feel my prettiest with no makeup on with my curly hair. I also feel prettiest when I am either playing music on the piano or writing. Now, I didn’t just wake up one day and love my curly hair. There was a time where I felt prettiest when I was covered in makeup and hair extensions. But deep down, I knew that was just a mask. Instead of using that stuff to accentuate the outer beauty that God has given me, I was using it to cover it up. I was ashamed. Now I am not dissing makeup. What girl doesn’t love walking into Sephora and coming out spending more money than she planned on? (Sorry, mama!) I was just using makeup in a way to hide the things I don’t like instead of using it to accentuate the things that I love. But now, with the support of my amazing friends and family, I have learned that beauty is sooooo much more than the reflection looking back at me in the mirror. It is about the way that I make people feel. It it about the daily choices I make to be a little less selfish and more cognizant of the struggles that other people face around me. It is about my genuine smile and love for differences among people. It is my ability to look at all the things that the world temps me with (straight hair, skinnier body, longer eyelashes, etc.) and being able to respect it and occasionally have fun with it but not let it consume me.
Now, that I let you in on when I feel prettiest, I hope that the next time you take your makeup off at night, you see more than just a bare face. I hope you see a blessed, brilliant, beauty that is capable of defining her own idea of pretty. Because to me, that is when I think you are your prettiest.
Always remember, you are blessed, brilliant, and beautiful.
<3 TD
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Hey y'all! My name is Theresa Ann and welcome to my blog! I studied writing at the University of Pittsburgh and earned my Masters of Science in Medical Physiology at Case Western Reserve University! The inspiration behind this blog is Proverbs 31:25-26. "She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness." Thank you for joining me on this journey of faith, life, and my road to medicine.

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